Traditional “Thai Wedding Ceremony”
Very Unique in Phuket
09.00
am The bride and the bridegroom arrive at Phuket Orchid Garden and Thai
village(POG) all participants shall be briefed prior to the commencement
of the ceremony. The bride will be accompanied to the dressing room and
dressed up prepared for the ceremony.
The
bride’s parents and relatives(can be provided by POG)will be led to the
house in the auditorium waiting for the bridegroom’s procession to arrive.
The bridegroom’s procession will start from the lakeside restaurant and
will walk around the lawn to the auditorium.
The bridegroom will be riding on an elephant
specially. Prepared for this occasion. He will carry the gifts to be presented
to the brides’ parent. Friend and the relatives will carry sugar canes,
fruits, whisky etc. As gifts for the bride ‘s family and the spirits.
The long drum dance will be part of the
procession, which upon arrival at the bride’s house, will find the gate
blocked by relatives of the bride, asking for a gate fee. All together
there will be 3 gates: wood , silver , gold.
The
bridegroom’s parents should prepare some money wrapped into paper(to be
provided by POG)for them. At each gate there are 3-4 persons. Passing
all the gates, the bridegroom and his parents will be permitted to enter
the house in which the parents of the bride are waiting . They will ask
the bridegroom some question, such as “Why are you coming here?” “What
are you bringing for our daughter?” etc. Then the bridegroom will open
the gifts he carries(gold, money, accessories; engagement ring etc.) If
the parents are satisfied whit the gifts, they will ask their daughter
to come out and she receives permission to get married. Then the couple
go to pay respect to the Buddha image and they will proceed.
If official registration is require. An authorized government officer
will legally record the marriage.
Thereafter
to the center table. Older people or their parents will present fresh
flowers garlands and put the sacred white string around their heads as
sign of being united. Also 3 spots sacred white powder is put on their
foreheads as a blessing parents and all relatives start pouring water
over the couple hands presenting good wishes. The Thai music group will
play during this proceeding.
10.00 am The ceremony is going to finish,
when the festival and colorfully dressed dancers come out and wish the
couple good luck, long lift and happiness by throwing around fragment
flowers.
If
a religious ceremony is require. The party proceeds to a specialty prepared
area in the restaurant where five monks bless the wedding couple with
prayers and sacred water. Afterwards the couple and their parent will
offer the monks food and drinks and make some donation for the temple.
After the monks have consumed their food. The ceremony shall draw to a
conclusion by re-newed chanting of prayers and blessings.
The
bride and the bridegroom will after the monk ceremony plant a “TON RAK”(Love
tree) at the lakeside as a gesture of long & growing life of love.
Thereafter the management of Phuket Thai
Village will invite the bride and the bridegroom to enjoy lunch or dinner
at our lakeside restaurant . If the couple wishes to host lunch or dinner
wedding to their and relatives, this can be arranged as an option.
Thai wedding ceremony
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